Since this is the first case here in Singapore, I'd have expected the punishment to be harsh.
A former school teacher had sex with a 15-year-old student six times in chalets and even in her matrimonial flat.
On Monday, the 32-year-old mother of one pleaded guilty to having sex with the youth, which began in March last year. She tried to break off the relationship when she found the teen becoming overly possessive and temperamental. But he refused.
A district court heard that when she insisted on ending their affair and ignoring his phone calls and text messages, he threatened to kill her and her family.
Fearing that he would carry them out, she confided in her school counsellor, who referred the matter to the school principal on May 15 last year. The next day she made a police report.
In court on Monday, the bespectacled woman, clad in a long white-sleeve blouse and dark blue pants, admitted to one charge of sex with a minor under 16. This is the first case of its kind involving a woman. If convicted, she faces a jail term of up to 10 years or fine or both.
Deputy Public Prosecutor Royce Wee said the woman was teaching Chinese language and civil moral education in a primary school where the victim was in Primary 6 in 2007. She did not teach his class.
After a school trip to China, the two began calling and SMSing each other frequently. Over time, she became fond of him and began to treat him as her godson, showering him with a lot of care and attention.
When he was promoted to secondary 1, they continued to meet. They also went window shopping, watched movies and had meals together.
They began to develop intimate feelings for each each. The boy finally told her he had fallen for her, and she agreed to be his girlfriend. On March 10 last year, she booked a chalet in Pasir Ris and had sex with him.
Senior Counsel Sant Singh said she was under a lot of work and family pressure, having to look after her five-year-old girl with learning disability. He said his client had wanted to end the relationship after realising that it was inappropriate and not right for her to do so.
'She was also ridden with guilt, and it was consequent to this that she could not handle the situation that she spoke to the school counsellor and made a clean breast....'' he added.
District Judge Sarjit Singh will pass sentence on Feb 23.
From Straits Times, "Ex-teacher, teen had sex".
Update on 10/02: it's clarified that the unnamed culprit is actually a mother of two. Not one like mentioned in the previous article. I personally must express sorry that she's the only one prosecuted. I mean, how about the boy?! Didn't he threaten to kill her & her family? Shouldn't that threat be considered seriously? Yes, recall this particular case: a teen boy killed his lover's husband.
She was a teacher in his primary school, and it was during an overseas trip which she led that trouble began.
While on that trip, the married teacher and her young charge, then 14 and in Primary 6, struck up a friendship.
They kept it up after the trip, and stayed in touch with each other through frequent phone calls and SMS texting.
The friendship continued developing, and before long, the woman declared the boy her godson and began showering him with care and attention.
Even after he left the school to go on to Secondary 1, they continued to meet, going window shopping, watching movies and having meals together.
Before long, the boy told the woman that he had fallen for her, and she responded by saying that she would be his girlfriend.
She then began booking rooms at a Pasir Ris chalet to spend private time with him, and he was 15 when they eventually wound up having sex.
Yesterday, in the first case of its kind here, the mother of two young children who is in her early thirties pleaded guilty to having sex with an underage boy.
The court heard that after the first encounter, the pair had sex five more times, either at the chalet or at her home.
Then the woman decided to end the liaison, and that eventually led to the exposure of the illicit affair: Angered by her move, the boy threatened to kill her and her family, and she went to the police and spilled the beans.
Deputy Public Prosecutor Royce Wee told the court yesterday that the woman had agreed to be the boy's girlfriend after he confessed his feelings for her.
The DPP said the two first discussed having sex at the Pasir Ris chalet, and the woman asked the boy to buy condoms.
When he said he was too young to do so, she bought them and they had sex for the first time last March 10.
But after a few more sex sessions over the following weeks, she began to feel that the boy had become 'overly possessive and temperamental', the DPP said.
She felt that she could not manage him, and began to regret their relationship.
But when she tried to end the affair, he refused.
When she insisted and began to ignore his calls and text messages, he threatened to kill her and her family members.
Afraid of what might happen, she decided to come clean. She confided in a school counsellor on May 15 and lodged a police report the next day, owning up to her crime.
Pleading for leniency, Senior Counsel Sant Singh said his client, now unemployed, faced considerable pressure at work and at home when she had sex with the boy.
He said her husband worked long hours and his grassroots activities kept him away from home.
Mr Singh pointed out that it was his client who wanted to end the relationship as she realised that it was inappropriate.
He said she was deeply remorseful and was now suffering from depression.
The slim, bespectacled woman was seen wiping away tears with a piece of tissue paper while her lawyer delivered her mitigation plea.
Mr Singh said her chances of working in any school after her conviction would be almost zero, and it was unlikely that she would offend again.
'Her reputation and family life has been ruined by her wrongdoing, and she has been forced to give up her career as a teacher, a profession in which she has excelled,' he said.
DPP Amarjit Singh urged the court to impose an appropriate sentence.
He said the new law - Section 376A(1) and (2) - did not distinguish between male and female accused.
'The sentence prescribed applies to both,' he added.
He told the court that since it was enacted a year ago, two men had been sentenced separately to 16 months and 15 months for similar offences.
District Judge Sarjit Singh will pass sentence on Feb 23.
From Straits Times, "Teacher had sex with boy".
Update on 11/02: The boy was said to be referred to the Institute of Mental Health's Child Guidance Clinic for assessment. Yes, good move. He could indeed be dangerous.
Last May, a female teacher walked into the Criminal Investigation Department to make a police report.
In the report, she accused a student of threatening to kill her and her family members.
It also contained these explosive words: 'The reason why he threatened to kill me is because I had sexual relationship with him on few separate occasions. Currently I wish to break off with him but he refused to let me go.'
And this was how Singapore's first case of a woman having sex with an underaged boy came to light.
At the time of their relationship, the married teacher was 31 and the boy was 15.
Their illicit affair took a nasty turn when she wanted to end it. She felt the boy had become too possessive. She also began to regret having the relationship.
But the boy was upset with her over wanting to end their relationship and for ignoring his calls and SMSes. Hence his alleged threat to harm her and her family.
Resigned
The teacher, a mother of two, has since resigned.
Yesterday, the teacher, now 32, pleaded guilty to one charge of having sex with a boy below the age of 16.
Five similar charges will be taken into consideration when she is sentenced on 23 Feb.
This is the first case of its kind after amendments to the Penal Code last year made it an offence for a woman to have sex with a boy under 16.
The offence carries a jail term of up to 10years, a fine, or both.
The woman cannot be named to protect the identity of the boy.
In all, she had sex with him six times - twice at her flat and four times at a chalet - between March and May last year.
The court heard that she used to teach Chinese and Civic Moral Education at a primary school.
The boy was not her student, but they got to know each other on a school trip to China in 2007. He was then in Primary 6.
She had the handphone numbers of the students who went on the trip. When they returned to Singapore, she SMSed the boy to ask him how he was.
The two began calling and SMSing each other often.
She also guided him on a school project and coached him in Chinese to prepare him for his PSLE.
Over time, she became fond of him. She treated him like a godson and showered him with care and attention.
She also attended his birthday celebration, together with other teachers and students. That day, she hugged him in private for the first time.
The pair became so close that when he went overseas during the December school holidays that year, they talked on the phone almost every day.
The boy started Secondary 1 the following month and they continued to meet. They went window shopping, watched movies and had meals together after school hours.
The two developed intimate feelings for each other and after she questioned the boy on a few occasions, he finally admitted that he had fallen for her.
She then agreed to be his girlfriend.
Sex at chalet
From end-January, the teacher made several bookings at a chalet in Pasir Ris so that they could spend time with each other after school.
She took the boy there and they would get intimate by hugging and kissing.
She also discussed the issue of sex with him. Worried that she would get pregnant, she told the boy to buy condoms.
But he told her that he could not do so as he was underage. Subsequently, she bought the condoms and handed them to him to keep.
They had sex for the first time at the chalet on 10 Mar. They later showered and went home separately. They had sex five more times at the chalet and her flat.
In May, the teacher felt that the boy was getting overly possessive and temperamental. She also began having regrets about the relationship.
When he refused to end the affair, she ignored his calls and SMSes.
Threatened
On 13 May, the boy threatened to kill her and her family members.
She was worried that he would carry out the threat and two days later, she confided in her school counsellor.
The matter was referred to the principal, who, in turn, informed the Ministry of Education (MOE).
MOE directed that the teacher lodge a police report, which she did on 16 May.
The boy was referred to the Institute of Mental Health's Child Guidance Clinic for assessment on 20 May.
A medical report prepared by a psychiatrist stated that he had been emotionally upset after the break-up and that he would benefit from counselling and emotional support.
The teacher, who turned up in court alone yesterday, sobbed quietly in the dock and wiped her eyes with a tissue paper during the proceedings.
Her lawyer, Senior Counsel Sant Singh, said in her mitigation that she had been under a lot of work and family pressure at the time of the offences.
She wanted to end her relationship with the boy after realising that it was inappropriate.
He added that she was guilt-ridden and could not handle the situation on her own, which was why she decided to come clean.
From the New Paper, "She wanted to end affair because he was getting possessive".
Update on 23/02: the verdict is out. The ex-teacher has been sentenced to 10 months' jail.
A former primary school teacher who had sex with her student has been sentenced to 10 months' jail.
She is the first woman to feel the weight of stricter laws passed last year to protect minors from sexual offences. Her name has been withheld in order to protect the identity of the boy.
Their relationship began innocently - with phone calls and text messages after an overseas school trip to China which she had led. Then came meetings - where they window-shopped, watched movies and had meals together.
But the relationship took what Judge Sarjit Singh called an "inappropriate turn".
In March last year, the two had sex for the first time at a chalet in Pasir Ris, when the boy was 15. They had sex five more times after that.
The matter only came to light after the woman, 32, tried to break it off, but the boy refused and threatened to harm her family. She ended up going to the police.
In passing sentence, the judge said the case involved a "serious breach of trust".
He said that "teachers command a position of authority and respect in… society" and "parents should not have to worry about the safety of their children in school".
He made it clear that when such trust is broken, the courts must send a clear message - whatever the gender - and that the "punishment will be significant whatever the gender of the victim or the offender".
Only two people have been sentenced so far under stricter new laws on sexual offences passed last year to protect minors. Both are men and they had been sentenced to 16 and 15 months' jail each for similar offences.
The judge also pointed out the vast discrepancy in age and maturity between the former teacher and student.
He added that the "total lack of insight when she should have been aware of the consequences of her action" ... caused "tremendous harm to the victim" who "felt betrayed", according to the psychiatrist who examined him.
The petite bespectacled woman, who is married with two young children and who had been described by her psychiatrist as someone with chronic low esteem and poor self-worth, stood quietly throughout the sentencing, breaking down when she was led away by police officers to start her jail term.
From Channel NewsAsia, "Female ex-teacher gets 10 months' jail for having sex with student".
Update on 24/02: The ex-teacher's husband forgives her. Love does conquer all, I guess, including a silly tryst with a silly teen boy who turned out to be violent & threatening & yet, nothing was mentioned to what happened to the boy!
The husband of the woman who became the first woman to be jailed for having sex with an underaged boy will not ask for a divorce.
'He told me he will not divorce his wife no matter what,' the man's mother told The New Paper. 'He is supporting her throughout this ordeal.'
The man's wife, 32, a former primary school teacher, was jailed 10 months on Monday for having sex with her student six times - twice at her flat and four times at a chalet.
Her husband did not show up in court on Monday and was also a no-show at her previous court appearances. But his mother, who is in her 60s, said he was supportive of his wife and had even driven her to court earlier on Monday morning.
'As his mother, I know he's heartbroken that his wife betrayed him. But he didn't show his sadness or cry in front of me. He is being very strong.'
She said that her daughter-in-law, whom she described as a quiet person, apologised to her after confessing to her son about the affair. 'My son had already forgiven her, so we did too,' she told the TNP.
The man's mother added her son was determined to keep the family together and not let the matter affect his work.
'He is working even harder now that they've become a single-income family and he has to continue paying their housing loan,' she said.
As the woman left for court on Monday, she bade her children farewell, the mother-in-law said. 'She didn't cry because if her children see her crying, they will cry too.' The family intends to tell the children that their mother has gone overseas to work.
'What happened was shameful but she is facing up to the consequences of her mistake,' the mother-in-law said.
From Straits Times, "Hubby forgives wife".